Time for pussy power.

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When I grew up there was no word for my sex.
It was called “front bottom”.
In my teens there were several words.
But most of them were used for cursing, not worshipping, loving or liking our sex.
And I want to change that:
Our sex is the gate of life, it’s something sacred and sexy, it’s the goddess energy... it’s Inanna, Freya, Kali, Pele, Afrodite... or who ever you prefer.
It’s time for reclaim the vagina.


I have written a book (in Swedish) called “Ingen skam i kroppen - frigör din sexuella kraft” - That would be something like) “Have you no shame - liberate your sexual power.”
In the book I describe my journey from shame to lust and pleasure and I invite the reader to make her or his own voyage in that direction.
Writing this book became a part of my sexsibility coach training. (Next training starts in October and will be held in English.)

And my vagina is important in that book. Or rather my relation to my vagina. Because when I can have a healthy and loving relation to my vagina, I also can accept and love me as a women. If I feel ashamed about my sexuality or my vagina, then something fundamental is missing in my life.

Take a look at your vagina - and accept what you see. Vaginas can look so different... in all their beauty. If you want to have a slight look, you can either go to this webpage, where ordinary women shows their vaginas, or you can look at vaginas as art at vaginarts.com

I want us to reclaim our vaginas, our sexual power and all our femininity. I want words naming our sex used as curses to be transformed to beautiful words. Because in a symbolic sense, cursing our wonderful sex, is cursing our sexuality - our womanness.

In Swedish we have this old word “fitta” which means “moist meadowland”.
Maybe you can see the poetic picture... a word really describing parts of the wonder with our sex. Moist meadow.
And this word is mostly used in a pejorative way ins Sweden.
During the 1990’s some women tried to reclaim “fitta” by using the world in a positive sense. They didn’t really succeed, but a seed was sown.

Today I work as sexsibility coach, and among us, we often use “fitta” revaluating the word. “I love fitta”.

I guess there are similar words in English.
Were some word is counted as dirty (and why connect pussy with dirt, anyhow??)
How to you value words like pussy, vagina, or cunt?
Do you like the sanskrit word yoni?
Are there some cute and accurate words for little girls pussies?
And what do you - as a woman - call your own sex - and what word could you - as man - use to honor her? Our what ever gender you prefer to use.

A couple of weeks ago I attended a women’s festival, at Mundekulla, Sweden. And because I am me I got a special assignment. I stood on stage encouraging all the women to find a beautiful word for their sex.

And I can see me standing there, talking about the gate of life, the yoni, the pussy, the vagina, the sex, the mouse, the cunt … and really tell them how important this is.

I consciously choose to speak a lot about the word “fitta” .
I think it's time make this magical word beautiful again. To let it be the moist meadow again, instead of being an insult.

If we completely ignore giving our sex a name that is, in my point of view, a powerful message that says:
Our vagina does not, or should not exist, should be hidden, should be ignored, too ugly or dangerous to talk about.

When I trained to sexsibilty coach there were several women who chose to put a name to their own sex, like Lotus Flower or Passion flower
So how do you show vaginas respect?
One way to never use any word connected to our beatiful vagina in a negative way.
Be proud of your vagina.