charlotterudenstam

Time for pussy power.

www.vaginarts.com When I grew up there was no word for my sex. It was called “front bottom”. In my teens there were several words. Bu...

www.vaginarts.com


When I grew up there was no word for my sex.
It was called “front bottom”.
In my teens there were several words.
But most of them were used for cursing, not worshipping, loving or liking our sex.
And I want to change that:
Our sex is the gate of life, it’s something sacred and sexy, it’s the goddess energy... it’s Inanna, Freya, Kali, Pele, Afrodite... or who ever you prefer.
It’s time for reclaim the vagina.


I have written a book (in Swedish) called “Ingen skam i kroppen - frigör din sexuella kraft” - That would be something like) “Have you no shame - liberate your sexual power.”
In the book I describe my journey from shame to lust and pleasure and I invite the reader to make her or his own voyage in that direction.
Writing this book became a part of my sexsibility coach training. (Next training starts in October and will be held in English.)

And my vagina is important in that book. Or rather my relation to my vagina. Because when I can have a healthy and loving relation to my vagina, I also can accept and love me as a women. If I feel ashamed about my sexuality or my vagina, then something fundamental is missing in my life.


Take a look at your vagina - and accept what you see. Vaginas can look so different... in all their beauty. If you want to have a slight look, you can either go to this webpage, where ordinary women shows their vaginas, or you can look at vaginas as art at vaginarts.com


I want us to reclaim our vaginas, our sexual power and all our femininity. I want words naming our sex used as curses to be transformed to beautiful words. Because in a symbolic sense, cursing our wonderful sex, is cursing our sexuality - our womanness.

In Swedish we have this old word “fitta” which means “moist meadowland”.
Maybe you can see the poetic picture... a word really describing parts of the wonder with our sex. Moist meadow.
And this word is mostly used in a pejorative way ins Sweden.
During the 1990’s some women tried to reclaim “fitta” by using the world in a positive sense. They didn’t really succeed, but a seed was sown.

Today I work as sexsibility coach, and among us, we often use “fitta” revaluating the word. “I love fitta”.

I guess there are similar words in English.
Were some word is counted as dirty (and why connect pussy with dirt, anyhow??)
How to you value words like pussy, vagina, or cunt?
Do you like the sanskrit word yoni?
Are there some cute and accurate words for little girls pussies?
And what do you - as a woman - call your own sex - and what word could you - as man - use to honor her? Our what ever gender you prefer to use.

A couple of weeks ago I attended a women’s festival, at Mundekulla, Sweden. And because I am me I got a special assignment. I stood on stage encouraging all the women to find a beautiful word for their sex.

And I can see me standing there, talking about the gate of life, the yoni, the pussy, the vagina, the sex, the mouse, the cunt … and really tell them how important this is.

I consciously choose to speak a lot about the word “fitta” .
I think it's time make this magical word beautiful again. To let it be the moist meadow again, instead of being an insult.

If we completely ignore giving our sex a name that is, in my point of view, a powerful message that says:
Our vagina does not, or should not exist, should be hidden, should be ignored, too ugly or dangerous to talk about.

When I trained to sexsibilty coach there were several women who chose to put a name to their own sex, like Lotus Flower or Passion flower
So how do you show vaginas respect?
One way to never use any word connected to our beatiful vagina in a negative way.
Be proud of your vagina.

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  1. RIght-on! My answer to this is http://Vaginarts.com - that says it all!

    SvaraRadera
  2. Malene - Denmark30 juli 2012 16:51

    Thank you for your thoughts. It is indeed an interesting question. In many aspects.

    One aspect is about the negative/positive:
    I agree it is important for a lot of women to find positive words if all words they can think of are negative, -and I also see it as an important fase in societies to have positive ways of talking about the sex.
    But the more I think about it in my own case, the important thing for me is to have neutral words. I enjoy my pussy and I enjoy having it and using it, -but I like to identify with it more neutral than positive or negative. To me that is part of the tantric "being with what is without judging" -and I think the same way of my lips and my tongue and my nipples. Being neutral in thought releases more energy to sensation -in my experience
    The other part of the question is about finding words that express exactly what part of my body I am talking about. To me that part is important, as I find it different what happens in my vagina, in my clitoris and other places of the pussy (to me pussy is the all-over-word, and In danish I use "kusse" for that) And as for these these detailed words I would like to have more grounded dailylife expressions than the latin ones.
    As for describing the male parts I actually miss a word similar to pussy. I have several names for penis and for the balls but actually no name for it alltogether.

    Have fun proceeding:-)
    Malene - Denmark

    SvaraRadera
  3. charlotterudenstam31 juli 2012 09:45

    I guess it's a process, first to accept and name the female sex, to go from negative to positive, and you have come to the next step, which I feel is accepting what is, without any judgments.

    SvaraRadera
  4. charlotterudenstam31 juli 2012 09:46

    Well so far the texts are in Swedish and I am looking forward for English speaking people to read all the interesting stuff at Vaginarts as well. Until then, look at the wonderful art and se the goddess in the vagina.

    SvaraRadera
  5. Well said! I think the word vulva is better than vagina, since vagina is so specific. My pussy is not just a vagina :P But I agree, in swedish, "fitta" is the best word. It's empowering, strong, sexy.

    SvaraRadera
  6. charlotterudenstam6 augusti 2012 23:04

    Well, since Engish isnät my mother tongue, I don't really know what I prefer in English. But I do think it's time for us to recognize, love and name our faboulous yoni, cunt, vagina, vulva, fitta, pussy, snutta, snippa, mouse.... Thanks for commenting. Love that you do :)

    SvaraRadera
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